Alhamdulillah, MasyaAllah, TabarAllah.
Such a blessing that we finally made our way to the Almighty's home, to our Prophet's land. Thank you Allah for giving us the chance to be your guest.
Frankly, it wasn't really my main intention to be performing umrah so early. The cost is just too overwhelming. And I cannot bear the fact of us going without the kids.
But somehow, everything just seems to fall into place.
Main reason for the hubs was none other for making early preparation for Qaid's SPM. Quite frankly, even this wasn't strong enough reason for me. For the sole reason that not everyone would have the opportunity to do that. But somehow, these other factors just served as triggering factor; not always that we are going to have both our moms around, not always they will still be in good health to be performing such tasks, and both Qaid and Qays are strong enough to be lending their extra hands. And 1 final reason. Suddenly it coincides with Chinese New Year break, which left us with very minimal leaves to consume. So that's it. To Mekah we'll go.
Prayed hard towards the day that everyone will be in the pink of health and for everything will be eased.
And alhamdulillah it had. Especially for the health of our moms.
But there was some slight inconvenience just 2 days before we departed.
There was a sudden shift in our schedule.
Hubs gave a call to inform the news, the morning before the trip. And the way the news was conveyed was like it was the worst news imaginable. I thought the agency screw up and we've been cheated. Alhamdulillah, there wasn't anything like that. Hubs took it pretty negatively, because he wanted to catch Friday prayer in Madinah and the next week in Makkah. In the end, once we arrived, we had some slight issue with our mom’s wheelchair, and he ended up able to perform Friday prayer in Jeddah airport. The whole crew had to wait for us, but guess, we had our little blessing. Alhamdulillah
Then our journey to the blessed land began. Even in Jeddah, there lies a vast amount of land. Not yet fully developed as I thought it should, considering the continuous flocking of people from around the world to the area. The eateries were limited. We had to make do with what was there. The prayer room was very basic and unfrequented.
But once we reached Al Haram, the vibe was totally different. For a first timer like me, seeing people performing their solat by the sidewalk was very unusual, and humbling. There was no particular segregation between men and women, unlike how we do it here. People were constantly in their prayer robe, so there isn’t a need to specifically change into it.
As for the rooms, we had our first mishaps. What was supposed to be a 4 person per room among us girls (Me, Naela, Nenek and Opah), we had to deal with another patron to be our roommate. She came as a couple with her husband. But in order to save, opted for separate rooms. And we had to be the victim to the situation. But the frustration wasn’t long. The lady turned out a good company. Especially in Madinah where I get to squeeze in the room with the boys, the lady gracefully, indirectly, looked after our moms.
Once arrived, we had to get ready for our first compulsory umrah. It was a very emotional journey towards Masjidil Haram. And I was so glad that the boys were just as present, if not better. We left the wheelchairs in the room after seeing how crowded it has gotten. We arrived just in time for maghrib and managed to get a decent spot right in front of Kaabah. Looking back, this was indeed a blessing that we didn’t notice. By the amount of crowd and with the day being Friday, there should be no way for you to be that near to Kaabah, that late towards Maghrib. But we did. And the first Adzan heard was the most beautiful sound ever. We made our way towards Mataf once Maghrib was done. But we had to split from the boys. Just us girls, me with no prior experience of Umrah, looking after 2 tired and weak senior citizen and 1 small, underage girls. It was a miracle that I’ve made it, if not for Allah’s wills. But we did, Alhamdulillah, MasyaAllah. It was so crowded, should you get detached from your group, there’s no way of getting back together. Not when you are not familiar with the area and havent had the chance to sync up your regroup area.
We got reunited after tawaf and before sai’e. And managed to go together. Our moms quickly asked for wheelchair. And that is a drama in itself as well. Opah’s wheelchair was sorted but Mak’s wasn’t. We didn’t have small change, but requested the helpers to proceed first. Midway, he was worried that we wouldn’t be paying him. He stopped and left midway. Long story short, this was sorted. Angah was lost midway too during sai’e and it was a while before we regroup again. It was the first day and first time for most of us, with kids in tow. So anxiety was somewhat all over.
After this was completed, it was the most tiring time ever. At least for the elders. We had to walk far back to get to the where we could head back to hotel. Everyone was so hungry, we didn’t have any dinner. Hubs decided to send the moms back to hotel while I brought the kids to find dinner at 12 midnight. Once found, it was the most delicious food. Don’t think the food there tasted as nice after, but it wasn’t too bad still. The extreme hunger and tireness from the long journey and lack of sleep from when we started our journey must have made the food tasted much the nicer.
So that was it for the 1st day of our umrah.